Self dail

How often do you take time for yourself. Most of the people in the world keep themselves occupied in their professional or family or social life and hardly devote any time on themselves. Actually we keep connecting to the world and fail to connect to ourselves 

Personal time is an investment in self. How long you can run in life without servicing yourself. We can't go for far with tired body or fatigue mind. So we take rest or else we won’t be productive next day. But ask yourself do you wake up fresh or wake up tired and want to sleep more if routine permits.

Why we wake up tired

In the process of sleep body and mind both should be at rest. But unfortunately the only body is at rest and the majority of people fail to put the mind at rest. The reason is simple we are not connecting with self to check the issue inside and keep running away from ourselves. So when we go to sleep our conscious mind may get silent but our subconscious mind is super active and trying to figure out the unsolved problems of life.  

The best option is to spend some time daily in solitude. Check what is going on inside which is bothering you or creating mental hurdle is it any experience or a current situation or any person. In silence, you will get the solution of your problem. 

Cooperation or competition

Our intention reaches the person before our words. This means whatever we think about any individual reaches another person as vibration and based on that other person can catch is the intention good or bad.

When someone is in a race to compete with others mostly that person carries emotions of fear, anxiety, tension, jealousy, irritation. These negative emotions first hamper the person’s own mind-body then it also reaches to the person for whom it was created. If it was a generic thought for everyone who he thinks as his competitor than it becomes his attitude which everyone else notices. As we know what we saw is what we reap. So those negative emotions will come back and it will become a game of exchange of negative energy. For example – Suppose you are driving along with your family to a holiday destination. Happy conservation going on everyone is excited. Suddenly you notice a different car and decide to race. Now suddenly energy inside the car changes you ask everyone to keep silent driving rash breaking traffic rules increasing the probability of an accident with only one objective to win the race.

We need to understand that every individual has different parameters with the different capability and there is no reward like in the above example a different car with different capabilities and no reward once you reach your destination.

The reason behind is one wrong belief system that to become successful you have to compete with others by hook or crook or else you will fail. This belief system has created more and more barriers in the world rather than success. Yes, it is good to check others for reference but have competition only with oneself.



Also, start cooperating with others which will radiate compassion, humility, happiness and will create a healthy environment for everyone and help each other to win. Once we start helping others more help will come in our path.

World in making

We all want a better world to live in. But to contribute to making the world beautiful is an individual’s choice. Living for self is normal; people who thought will create a difference in the world are the ones who did. History is full of examples of people who dedicated their lives to world betterment. Science & Technology has gone beyond our imagination and advancing constantly. If we look at the current situation of the world than what is the first thing that comes in your mind that the world needs the most. The answer is peace. Now the question is who can bring world peace, and how an individual can contribute.

Why peace is required and the misconception behind

Without peace, we cannot have love and harmony in life. If we little introspect about the purpose behind our personal and professional effort then we would realize love peace harmony is all we want apart from materialistic possession. But the greatest misconception which runs in the world people focuses on to earn money with belief rest everything will come naturally. Every product and service is designed with a specific purpose. Like a car is designed for transportation & comfort but if we seek happiness or peace from it then it’s the wrong expectation.

Inner creation

Peace, love, happiness, harmony all are positive emotions and all emotions are the creation of our inner world. It all depends upon what thoughts you create it results as feelings. A person with all materialistic possession if create the thought of anger, hatreds then he cant feeling peace, love. Similarly, a person with not great wealth creates positive thoughts of love, peace then he will feel the same.



Process for World peace

Our quality of thought positive or negative radiates from us in terms of vibration. The world is the collective vibration of people staying on the planet. So every person’s vibration contributes to the world’s vibration. With this understanding effort is required to put attention on our thoughts make it positive related to love, peace, happiness, harmony and we can manifest the same in the world.

Comebacks stronger than setbacks

No matter how many times you fall in life, important is to keep rising. Every experience of life teaches us a lot and it couldn’t be better to learn from our own life journey. Hence experience is the biggest authority.

Neither feel embarrass by failures nor think to quit. Be flexible with your approach and remove the word doubt from your head. Work on self-transformation and prepare better for the next move. Until you have tasted the defeat you never learn the formula of success. So learn to embrace your failures because every failure is an opportunity to grow and become better in life.

The Inspiring Story of Karoly Takacs who made his comeback stronger than his setback

Karoly was born in Budapest and joined the Hungarian Army. By 1936, he was a world-class pistol shooter, but he was denied a place in the Hungarian shooting team for the 1936 Summer Olympics on the grounds that he was a sergeant, and only commissioned officers were allowed to compete. This prohibition was lifted in Hungary after the Berlin Games, and Karoly had expectations of success at the 1940 Summer Olympics, scheduled to be held in Tokyo.

During army training in 1938, his right hand was badly injured when a faulty grenade exploded. Karoly was determined to continue his shooting career and switched to shooting with his left hand. He practiced in secret, surprising his countrymen when he won the Hungarian national pistol shooting championship in the spring of 1939. He also was a member of the Hungarian team that won the 1939 UIT World Shooting Championships in the event. The Olympic Games scheduled for 1940 and 1944 were canceled due to the Second World War, but Karoly kept practicing never lost hope and surprised the world by winning the gold medal at the 1948 Summer Olympics in London, aged 38, beating the favourite, Argentine Carlos Enrique Diaz Saenz Valiente, who was the reigning world champion, who had approached him before the event and had asked him what was he doing there (having heard about his accident). His reply was that he was there to learn, setting a world record. Valiente later congratulated saying you have learned enough.

He won a second gold medal in the same event at the 1952 Summer Olympics in Helsinki, after the match, Valiente congratulated him again and said: "you have learned more than enough now it's time to teach me". He also attended the 1956 Summer Olympics in Melbourne, but finished eighth and failed to win a third medal. His story has given him a place among the "Olympic heroes" of the International Olympic Committee.
Although most associated with a rapid-fire pistol, Karoly also won a bronze medal at the 1958 ISSF World Shooting Championships in 25 meters center-fire pistol. He also won 35 Hungarian national shooting championships.

After his shooting career, Karoly became a coach. He trained Hungarian Szilard Kun, who won the silver medal at the 1952 Summer Olympics. He ended his army career as a lieutenant colonel.

How much talent matters in life

Some people are born talented some develop skills based on their hard work. Now the question arises who is going to be more successful in life, both can. Yes, a talented person can see the door of opportunity opening easily for them. So if you are talented good use it in the right way to proceed ahead in the journey of life. But also remember the journey requires a lot of hard work and consistency. You cannot just leverage your talent to achieve success.

People who are not born with extraordinary talent and can still achieve the height of success. The journey is built with patience, persistence, perseverance, and resilience. The best part is all are in your hands to put in practice. So never feel you lack in talent. Work on yourself to develop the winning attitude. How you define attitude- It is the vibration your carry with yourself. It is the inside story that cooks in your inner world. The equation is Thoughts <Feelings < Attitude. So positive thoughts will yield a positive attitude.

Respect is earned

We all want to be respected. Some people are given respect out of fear. Some are respected because of their roles and positions. But real respect doesn’t need a fear factor nor any particular role. Such personality does something special that people respect them naturally. Let’s introspect what makes us respect someone or what it needs to receive respect from others.

Receiving respect

Being loyal in thoughts, words, and actions. This means that persons thinking should be reflected in his words and then action. This will create credibility. Once others know him as a credible person who does exactly what he commits then respect naturally comes. One can think is it practically possible yes it is. For that one has to keep attention over the seed in mind i.e. thoughts. One more important aspect is self-respect. If you don’t respect yourself then definitely people will also disrespect. Respecting yourself means accepting yourself the way you are and also being loyal with the effort you make to become better. Also, he has to respect others to receive respect from others.

Respected people


A person with a deep value system is liked hence respected by others. Selfless in his approach has a purpose to give something back to society. They radiate respect to the world no matter others respect them or not.

Keep learning for growth

You are never too old to learn new things. One way to learn is reading. It is been said a person who reads a good positive book doesn’t remain the same person as he was before reading. A survey says a successful entrepreneur reads average 60 books per year. As a daily routine one should dedicate some time for reading. The best way to start the day is with some positive reading. Most of the people get hooked by their mundane routine that they fail to give importance to learning. Also, another obstacle is self-ego which says I know it all so there is no need to know furthermore. The fact is there are a lot of things to learn and acquire new skills. List of acquiring new skills is long like new technology, business skills, public speaking, writing, cooking, music, dancing, gardening, farming, etc…..

Why it is important to keep learning

Our growth in life is directly proportionate to our knowledge. Our knowledge base doesn’t remain constant it either increases or decreases because we give feeding information but without checking the quality. So the choice is with us to increase our knowledge base or allow it to decline. If we keep gaining positive knowledge then it works as a power which further adds to our self- confidence. A person with self- confidence can overcome any adverse situation of life. Also, new skills can open up new possibilities in life.

The impact of reading on our mind (software) & brain (hardware)

Reading or learning new skills is a piece of information which is the emotional diet for our mind (software). Information is a raw material for thoughts. The quality of the product depends upon raw material. It also helps us to break the pattern of generating negative and waste thoughts. This mental energy which is generated by a new piece of information creates new neurons in the brain which plays an important role to increase brain power. Further, it comes in our attitudes and actions. There are a lot of benefits to learning. Make it a habit and it will transform your life for sure.

We are born original don't die a copy

We all love an original copy, don’t we? Someone in the world said “fake it until you make it” others liked the line and started coping. The purpose of faking was to impress the world means showcasing life opposite of reality. So people started faking in a lot of aspects of life. Some started faking with wealth by possessing items bought out from debt. Some started faking business by showing a false image than reality. Some may have a broken relationship but showing the world that it is working fine. If you are doing so then stop and check whom you are faking actually nobody but Yourself!

If we need to accept that by acquiring fake layers in life our originality has been lost and this leads to an identity crisis. People behave differently with different people. Like if someone is nice to us we are nice to them, if someone is very nice to us we are very nice to them and vice-versa. The world has become an instrument to change my nature constantly then what is my original nature. For example, an actor who acts in movies with different roles and keep shooting every day for hours. Though he is doing it as a profession it takes a lot of time for them to come back as an original character. Remember we all are also actors playing a different role on the world stage. So wake up before its late because duplicate copy doesn’t last long.

Remove darkness from life

Darkness around us slowly starts developing darkness within. Outer one can be visible to others but the inner one is visible to self. The reason for outside darkness could be in terms of challenges in career/ job, health issues, death, family matter, financial loss, litigation, etc. If one is unable to handle it with stability then impacts go deep inside depending upon an individual’s capability. Challenges are not that powerful as we perceive. Remember there is a solution to every problem. No matter how dark it is in your world one spark will start removing the darkness. Fill yourself with spiritual knowledge it will ignite your inner light and slowly life will become full of light.

*What is our original identity?*

Whenever we have to introduce ourselves, we generally say our name, profession, address, and family. Question is, is it our original identity or acquired identity?

We live our whole life based on acquired identity and the biggest irony is that, after death, we no more call a person with a name. We start giving reference of the body through which we knew him or her. Why is it so! that a person who had acquired everything, suddenly gets referred to as a body only.

Whole life we put efforts to acquire our identity by being body-conscious and suddenly after death, the same body is no more valid. Then it means there is something superior to our body which operates through the body to perform all task and once it leaves, the body is of no use anymore.

*What is it called? who runs our body?*

You call it soul or energy or consciousness which is eternal and never dies and acquires a different body each time it takes birth.

When the soul is born it doesn’t have any labeled identity. But slowly we start acquiring it from childhood to adulthood. All focus is on to nurture body, yes it is necessary to do that but we never think of nurturing our soul, reason! A lack of knowledge.

We run whole life to achieve our materialistic desires thinking that by achieving it we will get happiness, peace, and love in our life but even by acquiring all materialistic things people are unhappy, unfilled, lack of love, no peace in life. Why so?

Yes! it’s important to achieve materialistic dreams but the truth is it can only bring comfort in our life. Then what will bring permanent happiness, love, peace, and contentment in our life!

The answer is, we can achieve it by being soul conscious. The reward of becoming soul conscious is, we can acquire our original quality which is peace, love, happiness, bliss, knowledge, purity and power.

In this world, whatever product humans have developed comes with a manual to help us understand its usage. Similarly, the 'Creator of all souls' is the Supreme Soul, 'God' and spirituality is the manual of God. There is a difference between being religious and being spiritual so don’t get confused. Religious practices may lead us to towards the path but spirituality is the path.

Hope this article adds some value to your life. If you are open to explore further, be in seeking mode, it happened with me as saying goes “when a student is ready teacher arrives”. I am so blessed that the highest of high Supreme teacher appeared in my life and made be a godly student through prajapita brahma kumaris ishwariya vishwa vidyalaya. My deepest gratitude to my incorporeal father Shiv baba for letting me know my original identity and showing me the path of liberation from vices.



Thank you and God bless you all.

Never feel shy to aim high

Nobody starts as an expert in life. Every expert was a beginner one day who aimed high worked delicately and became an expert one day. Keep in mind it is never late to start aiming. Some people are born talented so they may flourish faster if they use their talent in a right way. We all human beings intellect is gifted with will power and utilizing this power any individual can excel in life. Will power is mental muscle which can be developed. Likewise to develop muscle strength one needs to do exercise, rest and have proper diet. Similarly to develop mental muscle (will power) take care of emotional diet. What we read, watch , listen collectively can be called information what we consume grows our mental muscle. So keep attention on emotional diet and consume only healthy positive information.